Our gullibility

Just yesterday, I was speaking with a friend who has established himself in the world of leadership. For sake of anonymity, I'll just disclose that he's currently mentoring young and mature females who have at one time time of their lives, lost direction, and are willing to take U-turns into their destinies and purposes.

He told me that he encountered a young lady of 20 who didn't know that nothing bad would have happened to her boyfriend if she didn't have sex (pre-maritally) with him. The so-called boyfriend feigned sickness and prescribed a few bouts of climatic pleasures as the only effective solution he needed to get better and which his girlfriend could provide without stress.

Now, back to our gullibility, the female's gullibility...
Before you begin to feel like a saint, do you remember the first time you kissed a man or was touched by a man you weren't married to? Do you? Do you also remember how you felt when you saw that same man, who professed love to you like you were the only girl in the world, with another woman? Do you?

Females, young and old, married and unmarried, employed and unemployed, all have one thing in common. That one thing is their motherly nature, their compassionate heart that can't bear to see their loved ones in pains/hurting.

This same nature is the very reason that teenage girl became pregnant for that irresponsible boy/man who did not value her very essence. It's this same nature that drives that married woman into adultery. The list is endless.

See, I'm not saying our very soft nature as women is a bad gift/thing. I'm saying that when we do not understand our power as women, when we do not value our existence, our essence and don't take reasonable time out to know who we truly are, then catastrophe becomes the guest waiting at the reception of our lives.

Why would you ever feel like you're not good enough for a man, any man at all? Why would you need a man to tell you that you're beautiful or gorgeous before you truly feel that way? Don't you know that what you carry inside is what men are truly looking for. I'm not talking about the sexual satisfaction you can offer them, here. I'm talking about your will power, your management skills, your access to God's throne of grace, your sweetness that encapsulates any and every environment you step into, your ability to see dangers ahead, your grace to bring a man closer to his destiny.

Name it baby , we're hot cakes. Cakes don't go go after customers, customers rush to get them because of their taste. That's how the women folk are.

The problem is that for centuries, most women have not taken time to discover and develop themselves, most women have depended on men for their finances and happiness and all. Lol...They have to ensure these men are in a happy state if they must get what they want; woe betide them when that man leaves/dies.

Sweetheart, how long will you keep being naive? How much longer will you be deceived before you know what God planned for you? Why do you keep living an agnostic life when there's better?

Females ought have to have standards and principles which they should live by to ensure that their fragile nature is not abused or debased. Listen, you really don't need to be like the next lady standing close to you. You're unique; you're created and the beautiful thing is that no one is and can ever truly be like you. You are amazing; can't you see it? Can't you feel it?

Beauties, Proverbs 31 of that very bible you only open on Sunday mornings is more than enough to make you the woman you should really be. Come on, check it out...I'll be right here waiting if you have any troubles. If you need a private ear, you can reach me at sureimpact@gmail.com and do remember that we at female hub sincerely loves you.